"CASA has taught me to be resourceful, to never give up on finding creative solutions, and how to gain a new perspective." - Irene, CASA Volunteer

WRITTEN BY:

IRENE

When I read Qyon’s case file for the first time, I wasn’t sure we were a good match. He didn’t think he needed a CASA and I did not believe he would be comfortable with an older adult being thrust upon him. We were both wrong. Qyon has welcomed me as the dependable, consistent, and caring adult in his life. He smiles when I remind him that there are many people in my life, but he is my only kiddo. Qyon, in turn, has given me an opportunity to connect and make a difference. It’s a challenge, but one that I relish. 

We’ve explored everything from art to rocket ships, car museums to city council meetings. We have celebrated three of his birthdays together, and have created job resumes, cover letters, and applications. I’ve visited him at work and been his driver to medical appointments, job interviews, life skills programs, and bank appointments. The beach is his favorite place. One particular day there holds special significance for me. Qyon never wanted to talk about his grandmother’s death. Yet that afternoon, when I asked him to share a memory of his grandmother, he described how she would dress up on Friday nights and join her best friend for a night of dancing, always coming home late, but glowing. He shared how he struggles to live up to his grandmother’s hopes and expectations. 

At every school he attended, I became a recognized presence as his CASA. I went to every high school enrollment appointment, open house, back-to-school night, and IEP meeting. I became friends with each counselor and school secretary. Qyon graduated from Rio Contiguo High School in November 2018.  It was the same day as his birthday – quite a gift!  It was one of the most touching moments of my life. 

CASA has given me an opportunity to make a difference in our community. Being a CASA has made me a better listener, which is the most important skill when encouraging and nurturing kiddos. CASA has taught me to be resourceful, to never give up on finding creative solutions, and how to gain a new perspective. Although earning a high school diploma was a significant moment for my kiddo, many of the choices he has made since have not been wise. At times they have been dangerous. But, his future is not fixed. I believe as he matures and gains perspective, he will remember moments with his mentor and friend – and know that I will be there to encourage and advocate for him. A teen court probation officer once referred to CASA as “glue.” I want to be that glue, helping my kiddo connect with the true measure of what is important in life and discover the tools to get there.